FOUR
Well, today is my 4 year anniversary with josh. 4 years is a long time to know anyone, never mind actually to say you've been dating someone for that long. various people, some we've known forever and others we've just met, have been starting to ask "when???" but it'll happen when it does. i have no doubt that i'll marry him - it's just a matter of when. i feel no pressure - it's enough to know he's there for me. and i don't want the hassle of actually planning a wedding any time soon :) it is curious though since we've talked about that we're both cool with being engaged, etc i just wonder how/when it'll happen. the other night josh and i were sitting around with mike (helenek - his roommate) and josh was talking about the pressure of coming up with some special way to ask. he's not really the candlelight dinner/date proposal type - i think it has to be more elaborate than that. in the mean time, i just want to find an apartment for us and be able to have a space of our own. i've moved out of my old place and into his apartment with mike and justin (random roommate from miami who manages at abercrombie but really wants to be a hip hop dancer - strange but really nice guy - he actually has fake gold teeth and a belt buckle that says "fuck"). it's fun being able to hang out with the guys but sometimes you just want your own space. i want to unpack my suitcases from the summer (yeah, i know it's november but i consider the travelling job from the summer) and be able to live in a nice homey space.
yeah, i'm getting old and i don't mind.
Well, today is my 4 year anniversary with josh. 4 years is a long time to know anyone, never mind actually to say you've been dating someone for that long. various people, some we've known forever and others we've just met, have been starting to ask "when???" but it'll happen when it does. i have no doubt that i'll marry him - it's just a matter of when. i feel no pressure - it's enough to know he's there for me. and i don't want the hassle of actually planning a wedding any time soon :) it is curious though since we've talked about that we're both cool with being engaged, etc i just wonder how/when it'll happen. the other night josh and i were sitting around with mike (helenek - his roommate) and josh was talking about the pressure of coming up with some special way to ask. he's not really the candlelight dinner/date proposal type - i think it has to be more elaborate than that. in the mean time, i just want to find an apartment for us and be able to have a space of our own. i've moved out of my old place and into his apartment with mike and justin (random roommate from miami who manages at abercrombie but really wants to be a hip hop dancer - strange but really nice guy - he actually has fake gold teeth and a belt buckle that says "fuck"). it's fun being able to hang out with the guys but sometimes you just want your own space. i want to unpack my suitcases from the summer (yeah, i know it's november but i consider the travelling job from the summer) and be able to live in a nice homey space.
yeah, i'm getting old and i don't mind.
posted by meghan at 9:02 AM
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4 years IS a long time... i'm behind a few months but i totally know what you mean. i remember walking back from an adpi meeting at norris in the fall - everyone talking about boys - before any of us were dating any of these guys. sometimes it's hard to believe how long ago that was... we're old! --gabrielle.
mike helenek! whoa.
-cameron
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